These days I've stood and listened to many stories about all kinds of stuff. But one caught my attention and I was very keen to discuss it. The topic that I heard was about spending time alone with the one that is your boyfriend /girlfriend. And I've heard two opinions: one was that there is no need for a couple to spend too much time alone, together, and the other one was about how to spend more time together.
First of all I want to say one important thing: never let your friends get in the way of your relationship. If they truly are friends they will understand you and they'll give you the privacy you need with your loved one. If not, then either talk to them and explain or "hasta la vista, baby". But what if your bf/gf doesn't want to be more time with you. Here,the lack of communication is the problem. Just talk, make things clear, reveal your true feelings and don't ever be afraid to say what you truly feel. If he/she loves you and cares about you he/she will be willing to listen and change the things a little bit in order for the both of you to be happy.
In my opinion, I find it impossible not to spend some quality time with your partner, because there is love involved in a relationship, and when you love the saddest thing to do is to say goodbye when you have to go home, or to school or somewhere because you will have to bear not seeing him/her for a couple of hours or so. It doesn't matter how busy your schedule is, you must make time at least once a week or so to spend it with your boyfriend/girlfriend. Those little details (that for me are huge) like holding hands, feeling the warmth of your loved one, listening to his heartbeat, hearing his voice, just feeling that he is with you, holding you. Those moments are unique because you never get to feel like that, just because every moment in your life is special and single. So even if time is not by your side, you make it be. It's all about being willing to do so.If that person makes you happy, be devoted, faithful and caring because he/she is the reason that you smile every day.
