Car keys and wallet !

      Articles over articles, shows over shows, everywhere it's full of people that value money and things. Open a newspaper or a magazine and there has to be an article about how I don't know who got engaged with a millionaire 20 years older than him or her. Same goes if you switch on the TV ( thank God I don't oped that thing ). Once I went out with a friend and it happened I just got to know a guy that I found interesting. Guess what was the first question that popped out of her mouth..."Is he rich? Does he have a car?" So, it did not matter to her what he was studying, if he was cute or not, if he was someone that you could speak to relaxed. No....those were insignificant and it shocked me. I know the society that we live in, but I didn't know that the way of thinking was so rotten.
      Males and females seek in the opposite sex different things. For women, money and for men, outside beauty. "25 year old woman has married 65 year old millionaire out of love". It sure is love, I mean who wouldn't marry gramps out of love for a truck load of money? As time passed, women have developed the ability to get through life wisely and easy, that's why I suppose they're attracted to money. And men...well they have that ability as well, but they're to lazy to develop it or they don't really encounter occasions to take advantage of. But they play their cards well as well. Young and rich and good-looking to top it...that guy will play his cards very well and always get what he wants, when he wants and from whom he wants. And because women are suckers for money they'll get caught and guess who'll be crying later?
      Going after material things, judging a person by his bank account or by the looks is a stupid thing to do. Those things could fade in an instant and all that "honey, I married you out of love" bullsh*t" will no longer exist. If your partner is smart, knows his way through life, you can open any subject of discussion and talk about it, he can manage alone a problem, has a sense of humor and is fun to hang out with, why the hell do you have to look at the bank account, the type of car he is driving or the way his body looks? Are we really that superficial? People, everything fades away !!! Beauty, money, that awesome car, everything disappears.
      What's the advantage of going out with a guy that has his wallet full of credit cards, buys you the expensive stuff you want, but doesn't have the brain to manage a problem or talk about elaborate things? I'm still trying to figure out what some girls think when they do that....
Same goes for a guy...that beauty of your girlfriend is going to fade, kilograms are going to add to that slender body and the poor girl will be dumped ( I've been a witness to a situation like this one ). The girl may be smart and fun and all the package, but the as*hole wants a model, and if possible, with no brain so he can play how he wants.
      "I make memories, I value what's on the inside, I value the person, that persons feelings", this is what I want to hear. Being yourself, not changing for the sake of the one next to you. Be special, like what is worth liking and soon the one that is a match for you and values the same things with appear.

How long is forever?

     In just 60 seconds from a video, I learned a life lesson that I've completely forgotten. A guy was asked how long was forever, since he made a promise with his friends that he'll be there, with them, together forever. The answer was simple but stroke a cord in my heart. " The fate of being together, and cherishing each other...I don't know how long is forever, but I only know to cherish every single moment with you guys by my side. I am satisfied like this. The moments with you guys being by my side it is enough to cherish every single moment. There will be times when it will be tiring, but just bear with it a little and it will be over. There isn't anything much about it...we are a family "
     Those words came out with so much sincerity and kindness, that they brought tears in my eyes instantly. It may seem little to some, but to find someone that actually cherishes every single moment in life with his loved ones, encouraging and supporting them is not something to just pass by.
     We find ourselves tired sometimes, trying to run away from our problems, but there is always that one friend that can stop you and encourage you if you let them. But in those moments our anger and tiredness levels are so high that we reject any act of kindness from that friend. Now I learned that that a friend can't be there for you if you start acting like that...he can get tired as well. So just dealing with it and let him/her help you, will be best for both sides. When a friend puts his head on your shoulder, don't feel pressured or annoyed, be proud that he chose you to support him, he chose you to show his weak side because he trusts you, and he indirectly asks for your help.
     Recently I feel like I've passed through time without remembering to cherish what I have...a life, friends, a family, a roof above my head and so many more. I just lived forgetting all these stuff. But It only took 60 seconds of my life to remember that I'm not alone and that every single second should be cherished...we only live once, we only have one chance, one shot at life. So be strong, be a support for others, a source of power and strength, of unlimited will, and it will all come back at you.
And to answer the question...forever is NOW !!