Love or Life?

     A good friend of mine asked me an interesting question : "If you were to choose between love and life, what would you choose?" I have to say that at that moment and time I didn't know what to say. If I would chose  life, life without love is meaningless, and love..well you can't love if you're not alive so...
     These days I've been hooked on love, I keep on thinking, and thinking, and thinking about love. Like : what would it be like?, what could have been?, what if?.
     Have you ever wished that you could erase some of your memories? I know I have. But then again if I hadn't lived what I lived, I guess I wouldn't be who I am today. They say that you don't remember days, you remember moments...yeah right. I remember freaking days...days that I wish to forget, but can't do so, so I'll have to live with them. They're a part of my life after all. No matter how those memories are, good or bad, they're mine, and they make me who I am.
     In the end I choose life over love. One makes his own luck, his own fate...and if you're alive and kicking you can love and be loved back. Like Dr House said: Oxygen is more important than love. I just can't understand children these days that say that " if I don't have him, if he doesn't love me, I don't want to live anymore."  When I hear this kind of talking coming from a 14 year old, I can't control the urge to slap that kid so hard to bring him back to Earth. Life doesn't end at one man or woman. The film of one's life is full of good, bad, horrible moments brought on by all kinds of people. If we don't learn from a young age to not give a damn of what others say or do, were going to end up bad. Sometimes we have to go on our own, to have a little alone time, just for ourselves to analyze the happenings in our life so far. After that we head out in the world that will surely seem better.
     If you're alive, you'll be loved. Sooner or later someone will show how it feels to be truly loved. It is impossible for someone not to be loved. Keep in mind that some people have difficulties in showing their true feelings. Take some time and think about the people around you. You'll never know from where love will pop out.

The end

The end of a thing is the start of another. But "the end" is one hard thing !! After four years in high-school I have finally graduated. But with that, a state of sadness and regret has wrapped my heart. When you're at school, tired, angry, grumpy you say : Jeez, why do I have to go to school? Why can't it end faster". I've been there and said that multiple times; but now I regret those words. High-school years never come back, and they're the most beautiful from your entire life.
My graduation prom was the best, not because of the restaurant or, I don't know, the music or stuff like that; but because I was surrounded by my friends and classmates. I think that was the first time that we got together like that, all of us. We all have that kid that doesn't stand us, or makes us angry just to see him. But that night I forgot all the bad things and just had fun with all my friends. They were, after all, my other big family. I've spent with them 4 years of my life, so I think that a really special and strong bond was created between us. At about 2 a.m it really hit me: I'm not going to see my friends anymore, we are all going separate ways, following or dreams making them come true. I started crying in the arms of my best friend that I've known for 14 years. Even them, she was there, by my side and I thank her for that. I'm going to miss all my friends; they were my family even though we argued from time to time, we yelled at each other, got angry. But those are things that pass easily, but the bond that we created between us stays strong.
Even though three weeks have passed since I've finished high-school, I miss it already. It's like I know I'm maturing day by day, I'm becoming an adult, and I'm so scared. I still want to be a kid and have fun with my friends. But I got to face life 'cause it's not going to end here. Good things have yet to come. So bring it on !!

Just like that

These days I've stood and listened to many stories about all kinds of stuff. But one caught my attention and I was very keen to discuss it. The topic that I heard was about spending time alone with the one that is your boyfriend /girlfriend. And I've heard two opinions: one was that there is no need for a couple to spend too much time alone, together, and the other one was about how to spend more time together.
First of all I want to say one important thing: never let your friends get in the way of your relationship. If they truly are friends they will understand you and they'll give you the privacy you need with your loved one. If not, then either talk to them and explain or "hasta la vista, baby". But what if your bf/gf doesn't want to be more time with you. Here,the lack of communication is the problem. Just talk, make things clear, reveal your true feelings and don't ever be afraid to say what you truly feel. If he/she loves you and cares about you he/she will be willing to listen and change the things a little bit in order for the both of you to be happy.
In my opinion, I find it impossible not to spend some quality time with your partner, because there is love involved in a relationship, and when you love the saddest thing to do is to say goodbye when you have to go home, or to school or somewhere because you will have to bear not seeing him/her for a couple of hours or so. It doesn't matter how busy your schedule is, you must make time at least once a week or so to spend it with your boyfriend/girlfriend. Those little details (that for me are huge) like holding hands, feeling the warmth of  your loved one, listening to his heartbeat, hearing his voice, just feeling that he is with you, holding you. Those moments are unique because you never get to feel like that, just because every moment in your life is special and single. So even if time is not by your side, you make it be. It's all about being willing to do so.If that person makes you happy, be devoted, faithful and caring because he/she is the reason that you smile every day.

Love = Life?

"They say that the world was built for two
Only worth living if somebody is loving you"

These two lines made me think about this aspect of life for way to much time now."They say that the world was built for two"; indeed the world was built for two to make life easier. When you have someone by your side to make you feel better, to support you and to love you, life gets easier in a moment. "Only worth living if somebody is loving you"; life is worth living because it's something you get from God as a gift, as a blessing. Life has it's ups and downs, and we can get through those tough times very hard sometimes, because being strong and keeping your head up is one tough thing to do. 

If I take apart the part of life being a gift from God, I can easily say that life is only worth living if somebody is loving you. When you feel you are loved by another person you feel so good, no one can describe. Knowing that you are in someones heart, you are cherished and loved, it makes you feel like you're the most lucky person on Earth. Well, you are. It's hard nowadays to find a person that loves you for who you really are, and takes you as you come with flaws and all. We all look for perfection in a person, but no one is perfect. Perfection lives in imperfection, so stop looking for the perfect one because he doesn't exist. Indeed life is better when you love and you're loved back. But in my opinion to love is one tough task.

 With love, yes, better things come, but also responsibility, worries, fights, tears and more. Love comes as an "all in one" item. Especially when you have previously been in love and have been deceived, you are scared to love again and put your heart through all that mess again. The feeling of fright can make it's way to your heart and make you stress out over the one you love. You never know when you're going to part ways. Tonight you hold him in your arms and kiss him, and the next day he's gone. Even though it's life, is hurts to love. But when you find the one that indeed loves you, you learn how to live life at it's fullest. Then you know you're happy. You can't get more happy than that.

 So, to conclude things, yes , I do think that life is worth living is somebody is loving you because then you truly live life.

Friendship

“A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.” 
― William Shakespeare
What would be life like without our friends by our side? I truly can not imagine this scenario. From an early age we learn by ourselves that having someone to play with, to share your toys with and grow up with is one of the best things in life. I have experienced this as well as all of the people of this world. A friend is a gift that we receive to make our lifes better. We have the right to choose our friends, but in most cases they choose us.
I remember the first person I made friends with. I could never forget how it all happened: I was in the 1st grade at school and every day my mom gave me an apple to eat at school. One day I happened to give my apple to a girl from my class. And so it all started. At that time I didn't realize that I had encountered my best friend. And so I continued to bring her an apple every day. And since that day we became best friends, and the best part is that we had the opportunity to discover each other as we really are. Even now, after 12 years we are still the same as we started, or so I like to think.
I remember Oscar Wilde once saying that: True friends stabs you in the front. I can give an argument to that. For example: you say you have a true friend, you tell him'her all your secrets, all your thoughts, just all that's on your mind, trusting that person that he won't tell anyone else. But, hey, welcome to the cruel world. The next day you find out that half your school knows your secrets. To sum it all up: true friends keep their mouths shut. Why can't that so called friend tell in your face that he'she can't keep such things a secret and love to do you harm with what you trusted him'her with?
Friendship is not something that you can learn at school. It just comes right at you and if you're lucky it never leaves. It amazes me when I hear stories about people being friends for over 20- 30 years. That's like having a brother or a sister that's not related to you by blood. A friend knows all your thoughts, all your mistakes, all your hidden crushes, all that's about you and vice-versa. He knows when you're not well just by looking in your eyes,  he knows when you're in love, when you're in trouble. And he's always there for you no matter what. He's always ready to stand up for you, to love you and cherish you.
That's why friendship should be cherished and taking care of because having a true friend by your side makes life seem like a better place.

Afraid to love again?

You say that you don't want to love anymore, that your last love turned your heart to dust. You can manage to live on without anyone by your side, just you and...your imagination.
If you ever think that way, you have a serious problem going on in your head. A human can never live without love. It's just not possible. Especially women...we tend to have a very stubborn heart and every time we break up we say:That's it, I'm not gonna fall in love anymore. We can't be more wrong. You can't command your heart, she does whatever she wants in order to be able to give all the love that's stored inside of her.
If you've been deceived once in love, it doesn't mean that it'll happen again. You can't waste your time thinking about how he dumped you, or how stupid you were to believe in him, to fall for his charms. You have to move on, and give your heart a chance to heal and learn to love again with no fear. You don't know who you'll meet next. Maybe he's the one to make you feel like a true woman, like you are loved for real.
To fear love, it's like to fear to live, to breathe. Well don't be anymore. Just go for it because live is damn short.

Why do we sometimes fall in love with the wrong person?

Have you ever asked yourself why do we fall in love? Why is it that we need to love, to have someone by our side? I did; but I didn't find the answer. But the most confusing part is this: why do we sometimes fall in love with the wrong person?
I think that I found the answer to my question...I think. Our heart does not have the possibility to think. She just goes for it. When you see that person that catches your eyes and when you feel your heart pounding like crazy, you know that you've started to fall in love. Maybe at first sight it can't be love, but nobody knows. It's stupid how you spend your days talking to that person, then he/she invites you out, you go, see him/her, talk, and fall in love. But you feel something is not right, it just can't be that easy. As a woman, you dedicate yourself to make the person you love happy, you don't think about anything else. You get worried when he doesn't answer you calls, when he ignores your messages. Why do women have to be so caring, why do we have to give all our love to that person, to take our heart and say:"Here, you have it,it's yours". We have a brain, but in love, I'm sorry to say but we don't use it.
In the end we all get our hearts broken. But women don't take it as well as men do. We cry our eyes out, we can't think straight anymore, we think how we could have been so stupid, how could this happen to us? Our heart heals very slow, it takes months, maybe years to heal a wound; but the scar will always be there reminding us of the moments that we spent with our loved one, and the moment that we broke up.
Life has many obstacles that are hard to pass, and we sometimes get stuck.When we fall in love, we wish to stop time, to never let go of that person, to have him/her by our side for as long as it's possible. But when love is gone, we don't know how to make time go faster, to forget faster. Well a true love can NEVER be forgotten. We will have the scar that our loved one made on our heart forever.
But we have to be strong no matter what, and hope that one day we will find that "special one" who will not make us suffer, the right person.