How to start this?...Oh, well...conclusion: college changes who you are, gives you an idea of what life is about, of how things really work and how superficial it all starts to become. Almost two months of college and it's already clear to me how it all works.
You would think that starting college, learning how to get through life by your own, would force you to grow up, to think your age. But for some people, it doesn't apply. And they don't stay immature when it's about business or something related, but when it comes to feelings. Feelings these days are overrated. No one cares if you love, if you hate, if you care, if you adore, if you despite...It's just like they want to say : "you just feel what the hell you want, and let me have my fun, 'cause I don't give a damn about you and your stupid feelings". Or worse: "Yeei, she cares about me, time to take advantage of that".
I have seen true love, I know it's still possible, but too many people don't care anymore. It's all about being with someone so that people and friends could see that you can have whoever you want, having someone to do your business because you're to lazy to do it.."hey, she loves me, she'll do anything for me". Just how stupid can a human being be to take advantage of a person that loves him? I don't get it, it's beyond my brain's capacity.
How come pure love does not attract love, but it's like a magnet to morons with one tiny, almost extinct nerve cell? And what's even more sad is that this "moron effect" does not have nothing to do with age. Don't dare to say that if he's older, he's more mature, he knows something about how life goes, about how a woman loves, because he doesn't.
So, in conclusion ( the 2nd one ),love still exists somewhere deep in one's heart, so it's better to stay chill and wait, analyze and then choose wisely. Cupid has his own plans.
No, and, sometimes.
ReplyDeleteCollege does change you. I mean, a lot of things change you, so that shouldn't really come as a surprise. People in general are superficial about a truckload of things, love included. The basic idea that "college helps people grow up" is a bit flawed. I mean, yeah, some grow up, but that doesn't really apply to everyone. Some may grow up, some might never grow up, that's just how things work with people.
People are selfish. Even if no one likes to admit it, in the end people wind up only doing stuff for their own goals. Rarely can you find someone who just does stuff for the sake of helping another being, or without having some deeper goals in mind. Again, that's how stuff works around here. You can't really do anything about this. However, love is way more complicated than this. True love still exists. I know that for a fact. And yeah, there are people that just don't give a rat's ass about love. That's just how they are. And most of these people actually can and will do what you can't get. They will take advantage of you. Love is a blessing and a curse.
In the end, it's only a matter of time and place before you can find your true one love. But mark my words, you can't make an omelette without breaking a few eggs. So go out, have fun, meet people. You can do it. I could !
:| I always enjoy knowing your point of view. And yes, you are right about all that you said. "Love is a blessing and a curse", how true is that.
ReplyDeleteI enjoy your articles too. I believe that if it would ever be the case, the two of us could actually keep a conversation going for quite some time. And in English, to top things off !
ReplyDeleteYes, that sounds like a great idea. I hope that once, we could have a conversation. Your ideas, my ideas...world, be ready:))
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